Usually, you're both so psyched to get to the good stuff that you rip off each other's things and hit the sheets. But stretching out the process makes sex hotter. Here's how you can give him a full-on striptease, or just make getting naked a little more fun.
1) Slip Into Something Sexier
When selecting your outfit, dress in layers so you'll have more to peel
off. And make sure you're comfortable in whatever you have on. Of course
stilettos and knee-high boots are wicked foxy, and if you feel
confident in them, great. But being in bare feet and one of his
button-downs (you can slowly undo those buttons...) is just as alluring.
2)Set Your Stage
Dim the lights or toss a sheer scarf over your lamps. Arrange a chair
for him to sit on where you'll also have space to strip a few feet away
(you want to be back far enough that he can see all of you, and you're
just out of his reach). To initiate things, either tell him, "I've got a
little something for you," or simply lead him to the room and push him
down on chair.
3)Hit Play
Pick a song that has a strong beat but isn’t too fast, and makes you
feel vixen-ish. A few good bets: "S&M" by Rihanna, "Dirty Laundry"
by Bittersweet, and "Crazy" by Aerosmith.
4)Walk the Walk
Begin your show with a slow, seductive strut. After sitting him down,
take your time turning around and striding away from him. Place one foot
directly in front of the other, and drag your feet for a come-hither
effect.
5)Give Yourself a Hand
Always pay attention to what you're doing with her hands: Glide your
fingertips up and down the sides of your body, stroke your neck and
collarbone (it's smart to focus on the sexiest parts of your body), tug a
little at the hem of your shirt or nightie. Move your hands smoothly
and lightly, and remember that using your fingertips looks way more
seductive than "wiping" yourself .
6)Whip Your Hair
If you have long locks, play with them and flip them around whenever you
have the chance. Guys go berserk for this, because flowing hair is such
a feminine attribute. They’ll imagine it brushing against their skin,
and running their fingers through it.
7)Mesmer-Eyes Him
Every so often during your strip-down, catch his gaze for a few seconds.
Eye contact conveys confidence, and that's what will sell the tease.
8)Amp the Anticipation
Play up the article of clothing that you're about to take off, so that
he senses what's coming before it happens. Like, if you're going to
remove your slip, slide it up and down your body first. Then once you've
removed it, caress the body part you've just revealed, drawing
attention to the fact that it's now nude.
9)Turn Your Shirt Into Handcuffs
Face your guy, bend over at the waist, and graze your hands down the
front of your legs. While you're in this forward fold, start to take off
your top—but instead of removing it all the way, leave it rolled at
your wrists. (Note: this only works with a sleeveless or short-sleeved
shirt.) Twist your right hand once, creating loose "handcuffs" around
your wrists. Rise back up and lift your arms over your head. After a
moment, either fling it at him or just toss it to the ground, like
you're done with it.
10)Arch Your Back
It accentuates your fine female curves. Simple, but so, so powerful.
11)Roll Your Booty
Men freaking love this: Stand with your feet slightly farther apart than
shoulder-width, knees bent. Throw your shoulders back, put your hands
on your knees, and lean your weight into your hands. Circle your butt
around 360 degrees or in a figure-eight shape. You can also do the booty
roll on all fours—just remember to separate your knees.
12) Move Between Levels
Throughout the tease, transition between standing, getting down on your
hands and knees, and then sliding onto your stomach. It's more
interesting for him to watch if you switch things up, plus it lets him
view your hot bod from all angles.
13)Get a Leg Up
Once you're on your stomach, flip onto your back, extend your arms
straight out on the ground over your head (this will anchor you down),
and lift your legs up in the air. Think about creating beautiful lines
with your stems: point your feet, cross them at the ankle, flutter your
legs, open into a straddle-style split facing him...and if you’re
feeling bold, look at him while you slowly caress your V-zone. To get
up, roll over onto all fours, sit back on your feet (they should be flat
on the floor, knees together), and then stand one leg at a time.
14)Unleash Your Breasts
Turn your back to him, slip off one bra strap, then the other. After a
second or two, unclasp it, and pivot to face him, holding your bra
against your boobs with your hands. Turn back around and let your bra
fall to the floor, so you're drawing out the moment of reveal as much as
possible.
15)Hit the Wall
Put your back against the wall, and lift your arms above your head.
Slink your body up and down a few times, then push yourself away from
the wall and walk slowly towards him.
16) Corrupt a Chair
Sit sideways on an armless chair, so that the back of it is against the
left side of your body. Lower your torso down to rest on the seat, as
you hold onto the back of the chair with your left hand for support.
Lift your legs in the air, and do some pretty kicks. Some simpler, sexy
things to do with a chair: Put one leg up on the seat, raise your heel
as though you were wearing stilettos, and caress your leg. Pop your butt
out every time you sit down and get up. Sit on the seat of the chair
and flip that hair!
17)Ditch Your Undies
Stand with your feet parallel, hook your thumbs into the waistband of
your panties, bend your knees, and slither your underwear down your legs
like a snake. Let them drop to your ankles. Step out of one side, and
then with your other leg, kick them in his direction.
18)Sloooow It Down
Never rush a striptease. Think of the process like creating pictures:
He’s going to want to remember these images of you getting naked for
him, so he can visualize them later on. The slower you go, the easier it
will be for him to take a mental snapshot of one of the hottest moments
of his life.
19)Touch Him Strategically
It can be torturously sexy to not let him lay a hand on you the whole
time. Or touch him at key moments to build up the tease. Occasionally,
brush his arms, mess up his hair, sit on his lap for a second, or have
him help you undress (for example, plant your foot on the chair in
between his legs so he can unroll your thigh-high stocking). Get more
affectionate as the tease progresses—by the end he literally won't be
able to resist you.
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