Nobody
can deny the beauty of a woman’s breasts as they are a source of
sensuality for both admirers and owners alike. Breasts are an essential
food source for babies. A woman’s breasts are as important to her as a
man’s sex organ is to him and they seem to drive men of all ages wild
with fantasy and desire.
But
do all men really fantasise about big breasts? The society seems to
accept the fact that men prefer them big, but it is unclear exactly why
they are drawn to an impressive cleavage.
Today, we shall attempt to explain why men are so passionate about tiny waists and voluptuous female bodies.
Although
70 per cent of men say they prefer large breasts, many women are happy
with smaller ones. When asked if they would like to have larger breasts
(without having to experience any pain, or pay a kobo for them) only
five per cent of women said yes.
Over
the last 20 years, the average bra size has gone up from a 36B to a
40B. Although women accept that nature has given them breasts, they
accept the fact that men and society seem to prefer large breasts. They
are still haunted by the fact that big-breasted women steal the show.
But do they?
Have
you wondered why men find big breasts so attractive? Scientists,
psychologists and sex therapists have tried to address the issue.
Men’s
unending search for motherly breasts may be the number one culprit and
the reason is obvious: a baby first feeds from his mother’s breast and
so breasts continue to fascinate him throughout his life, long after his
interest in milk has disappeared.
Because
his mother had large breasts when he was small, a man will try to find
someone who can ‘nourish’ him again. Many mothers are choosing to
bottle-feed than breast-feed their babies, but this does not seem to
make their male off-spring either indifferent to or, conversely,
obsessed with large breasts.
The
fact remains that the male child has a feel of big breasts while being
hugged or cuddled by his mum and he feeds longer on breasts than the
female child.
Another
simple physiological explanation is that large, firm breasts are an
indicator of good health. It is believed that a beautiful woman appears
healthier than an unattractive woman. Therefore, for men, large breasts
and well-defined hips are indicative of high sex hormone levels and
fertility.
The
general belief is that beautiful breasts bring forth beautiful
children. When a man responds to a beautiful curvy woman, he does so
instinctively as a future father, just as a woman responds to a kind,
gentle, thoughtful, helpful, caring, handsome man with broad shoulders,
baritone voice and an athletic body.
However,
the primary function of the breasts is not to delight men, but to feed
infants. Many changes occur in the breasts during pregnancy as a result
of fluctuating hormone levels. They can tripple in size, increase in
weight from 150-400g (the average is 200g) to as much as 800-900g.
Fortunately (or unfortunately for those men who prefer large breasts),
they quickly revert to their normal size.
Women’s
faces are different. So do their breasts vary in size. There is nothing
unusual in having one breast larger than the other. On the contrary, it
is unusual for them to be the same size and shape: our entire body is
asymmetrical and so are our breasts. This difference in size can become
more pronounced after pregnancy.
Breasts
are objects of desire and most men freely admit to loving them. Women
are aware of this and that is why wives are encouraged to show off their
breasts to their husbands. They should delight in putting on seductive
lingerie and enjoy the wow effect of an almost transparent blouse or a
plunging neckline from their spouse. It seems that rather than overtly
baring one’s breasts, the challenge is to hint at what lies beneath.
Some
men are drawn to breasts like a magnet; some love to worship them,
fondle, lick and suck them. If you fall into such categories of men,
please note that when touched, the muscular fibres of the breast
contract, the nipple becomes engorged and erect. However, be careful,
not all breasts are equally responsive. Large breasts are not
necessarily the most sensitive and sometimes, smaller breasts can be
explosively sensitive.
Sometimes,
a mere touch on a wife’s breast is enough to bring her to orgasm, while
other women are almost totally unresponsive. Therefore, husband, if
your wife seems indifferent to your advances, there is no point
insisting.
It
is better to try and discover her other erogenous zones. In addition,
wives, do not feel guilty if you do not enjoy breast play. Remember, it
is not unusual and things can change.
“I
only really discovered my breasts after my second child. Up until then,
they didn’t really give me any pleasure; they were just there to look
at. Today, when my husband kisses or caresses my breasts, it drives me
wild,” says 34 year-old Patricia.
Breasts
should be handled with care for guaranteed pleasure and a majority of
wives love having their breasts fondled. However, there is one important
rule: be gentle and handle them with care. Only a few wives enjoy
having their breasts pinched or manhandled.
Many
wives experience strong erotic pleasure when their breasts are fondled.
But they often complain that their spouses pay them insufficient
attention.
There
are countless ways to enjoy breasts foreplay! Using your fingertips,
trace first the outline of her breast and then the areola. Pressing
against the nipple and areola with the tip of your tongue often triggers
a strong sexual response. Then you can do whatever you like! You can
suck on the nipple, lick the breasts sensually or fondle both breasts at
the same time. A drip of honey trickled over the breasts in an
air-conditioned room can spice things up and really whet your appetite.
Breasts
are a symbol of femininity and wives love their men to love their
breasts. So, a few well-chosen compliments will not do any harm and
should help produce the desired effect. Another bit of advice: the skin
of the breasts is very thin and sensitive so, husbands, it is best to
shave beforehand.
Try to avoid too much fondling during the build-up to her period, as breasts can become heavy and painful at this time.
Men’s
nipples are generally considered less sensitive than women’s are.
However, it is still best to caress them gently, with either your finger
or tongue and be prepared to stop if your husband does not seem to
enjoy it. On the other hand, a man’s chest is much more sensitive than a
woman’s, particularly the ridge defining the bottom of the pectoral
muscles. Kiss your husband repeatedly in this area, tickle him gently
with your tongue, caress him with your fingertips or lightly scratch
him. He may be surprised to discover just how sensitive his chest is!
Apart
from the silicon ‘breast extender pad’, implants could make them
bigger. There are two types of implants: silicone and saline. Silicone
gives best results in terms of appearance and feel. When saline implants
are used in very thin women, they can form small unattractive ridges,
caused by water on the top of the implant, that are visible under the
skin. On the other side, we also have wives with breasts that are too
large. Are your breasts too large; have they troubled you since
adolescence, making it difficult for you to play sport or dress well?
Some
women bunch their shoulders in an attempt to hide what they perceive to
be an abnormal breast shape. Some women feel handicapped by large
breasts and find them difficult to live with. To this, researchers are
also of the opinion that good bra will still give a tremendous
assistance. In addition, if such women are comfortable with surgery,
they should consult with their family doctors.
Although
many men appear to prefer large breasts, luckily, many women find that
this is not the case. Men, being men, love all kinds of breasts,
whatever the size. As long as they have something that they can call
“their own,” many of them are contented!
Punch NG
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