Having anal sex can be pleasurable for some individuals. It is also a big step in your intimate relationship. If you and your partner have wanted to experiment with anal sex, here are some tips that will make your experience more enjoyable.
Some individuals may feel nervous about having anal sex out of fear of the pain or discomfort. However, if done properly having anal sex can be very enjoyable for both partners. The nerves around the anal region are very sensitive, which can lead to an amazing orgasm for both partners with the right type of stimulation.
First of, it is important to relax. Take a deep breath, and communicate with your partner. Before you engage in the act of anal sex, set the mood to create a comfortable atmosphere. Explore each other’s body first with some intense foreplay to get each other aroused.
One of the most important parts of having enjoyable anal sex is the use of a personal lubricant. There are lubricants that are used for anal intercourse to minimize the friction and make insertion a lot more easier. Thus, making it more comfortable for both partners. Try an anal lubricant such as Pjur Relaxing Backdoor Anal Glide or Swiss Navy Silicone Lubricant. Both are safe to use with condoms.
Once the lubricant is applied, begin slowly. If your partner seems to tense up, try to relax your partner with a soothing massage. It is important that you and your partner trusts one another. This is one of the most intimate acts that you and your partner can share with each other. Do not force insertion. You may want to start of by inserting your finger to get your partner use to the sensation. Try inserting another finger. Another idea is to use an anal vibrator that will also allow your partner to become more at ease with anal stimulation. Once your partner becomes more comfortable, then begin. Remember, communication is key. Talk to your partner and make sure your partner is comfortable, and not in any discomfort. If at any point your partner is not enjoying the sensations, do not be frustrated. Anal sex is not for everyone and that must be respected.
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